For the last couple of years, I’ve been taking pictures of my little family as part of the Me & Mine project, which was created by Lucy. Without this, I wouldn’t have captured two years of photo’s of me and my boys every month. So when Lucy created the siblings linky, it made me really excited to have another baby so I wouldn’t finally be able to join in.
Somewhere along the way, I decided that although I couldn’t do ‘sibling’ pictures, I could do ‘cousin’ pictures. I spoke to my sister in law about it, to see if she was up for me photographing Alfie and my niece and nephew every month and at the end of the year, we would put all the pictures of the three of them together as a Christmas present for my mother and father in law. Luckily, she was really on board with it.
When I was growing up, I was really close to all of my cousins but two in particular. Gemma is 3 months younger than me and Anthony is a year younger. I have such fond memories of the three of us all playing together and having sleep overs when we were kids. I’m still really close to them now – so much so that they were bridesmaid and usher at our wedding in 2014 and are also Alfie’s godparents.
I’m very lucky that Alfie and his two cousins also have a great relationship. Holly, at 6, is the closest in age to Alfie and Jack is the eldest of the three at 10. I feel very lucky that Alfie gets to grow up with Jack and Holly as he’s got two ready made friends in them and they really are the best big cousins we could wish for. Very often, I’ll see Jack putting a protective arm round Alfie if they’re at soft play or playing in the garden and Holly will very often adapt to doing what Alfie wants when they’re playing together. Just yesterday, we were at my in-laws and Holly was building a tower which Alfie knocked over a couple of times, (which we told him to stop doing). Rather than getting upset of falling out about it, Holly very kindly built another tower for him and made a big fuss over him when he knocked it down, as he’d wanted. It’s little things that like that which make me realise what great kids they are and how much they put up with from Alfie. (He’s going through a not sharing stage and finds it difficult to share his toys sometimes).
Every month last year, we managed to get together and get a picture of them. Some months were harder than others as some days one or the other didn’t want their picture taking (it was usually Alfie), but overall I’m so proud that I’ve captured these pictures of them all for a whole year. It was wonderful to be able to frame them all for my inlaws to give to them on Christmas day.
I’m really proud of this bunch of photo’s, but more than that, I’m proud of the three great kids in them. They’re growing up to be such good friends and I’m so excited to continue watching them grow and change over the next year.
I love how something as ordinary as taking a picture, can bring so much happiness to people and capture so many memories. I can’t wait for them all to be older and we can look back on these pictures together.
*linking up with Katie over at Mummy Daddy and me makes three